Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Dating Tips: Mildang??!!!! 밀당??!

Have anyone of you heard about Mildang term before?? Well if you were trying to look inside dictionary stop it right there because you just waste your time! Hahhah! ^^ You won't find it in English dictionary however I never tried to look it at Korean dictionary though. ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

What is "Mildang"?? and why it is popular among Korean?? Mildang is a situation where two people in a pull and push skills or known as the combination of flirting and power struggle.  Anyway Mildang is a new term that been used by modern Korean society. If you ask old Korean they might not knowing about this much. Mildang culture was spread out widely due to Korean drama that been aired around the world. If you were Korean fanatic drama fans, you will notice that most of Korean drama at least have this kind of scene once or twice.

People asking me did I have a boy friend? Yes I have a lot of boy friends but for special one I also can't answer it as I am experiencing Mildang term with someone. Hahha ^^*, when I'm asking to Korean about my confusing status, they explain me about Mildang! Hahah!! so from them I known this term.. Mildang is also a way of showing having a relationship with someone but refused to admit it publicly

People might be wonder why some of Korean refused to admit in relationship publicly that's including me! I once ask him the reason of not admitting it, he also can't give me the correct answer but he did explain to me some of the reasons. Anyway even if some of outsiders think that he's such a jerk to me but only me know him better than anyone else! Telling you the truth sometimes when I think about those Mildang games it make me sick but on the other part of it, Mildang makes our relationship full of surprise! ^^~~~

 p/s: I just pray the best for us! 사랑해요 ^^~~~


  1. many people in Korea who are loving someone and having a relationship think that 'Mildang' is needed in love. And the word of Mildang is from 밀고(inf. 밀다 to push) 당기기 (inf. 당기다 to pull) as you said. I think it's one of interesting post! +_+b

  2. Yah agreed, only people/whoever got experience in a relationship with Korean known about this.. well sometimes Yes its interesting but if it was too many Mildang session it will kill the relationship.. +_+

  3. I know mildang and I am annoyed by it. It is not only Koreans who practice this relationship game though. I admit that even though I hate it sometimes, it sure adds spice to a relationship.

    1. Yes,a lot of couples practice this not only Korean however this games is really popular among them. Hahhah! Agreed I hate it sometimes and due to this we call it Game Over! ㅠㅠ