Thursday, April 3, 2014

Relationship: Whats its like having a foreigner as your LOVER

It's been so long since my last post. Missing me?? ㅋㅋㅋ Well due to MH370, I can't focus for writing new entry,ㅠㅠ sorry for the late posting!ㅠㅠ Lets' go thorough my topic then ^^. Having a relationship with a foreigner is not easy as ABC. There are too many to consider as its complex yet it bring you abundance of joys as well difficulties! People around me always asking me how is your feeling for having a foreigner as your boyfriend?

It's quite tough to give exactly answer as different people experience it in their own way. First of all, man is still a man, NO matter what color skin he had, from where he come from; nothing much different from one to another.

Having an intercultural spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend will give you an opportunity to learn new culture from each other. However within this process you may faced some misunderstanding, and need to tolerance to each other lots of time. In order for me to keep maintain my relationship with my boyfriend is I study a lot about his culture, country and etc.

Some of my friends asking me how I get to know my boyfriend and why I choose someone who live far away from me. About this I'm only able to answer the first part which is we met while travelling. For second part, I have NO idea why I choose to have a long distance boyfriend,ㅋㅋ it's just our feeling towards each other. Even we live miles away, we know our true feeling towards each other, that's most important.^^

Having intercultural relationship also may lead to racism, why I says so? Did both of us became racist?? NO!! I'm not talking about that! ㅋㅋㅋ It's people perception, some call it as curiosity but of course we can differentiate which people were curious and which one were racist.

People with curiosity normally will ask many things including, where did we met? How do we keep our relationship, what about parent and family opinion regarding this and etc. While people that simply showing their prejudice normally will asking us, why you choose him or her? Is there is NO more girls or guys in our own motherland??

Next is, some people think that I have an obsession with Korea because of K-pop and so on. Well I'm not really big fan of their celebrity except Kim Soo Hyun!ㅋㅋㅋ However that doesn't mean I will sneak out to watch him while I'm in Korea! I'm not a saseng fan! ㅋㅋ

Honestly, when I was young, yes I love to watch Korean drama but I never had a dream for having Korean boyfriend!! ㅋㅋ This is because at that time I never thought that one day I will visit South Korea!ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋWhatever it is, I'm grateful and happy to have him as my boyfriend. ^^~

p/s: You may read at some other blogs about how they manage their intercultural love. These were some good example regarding to the topic. My Korean Husband, Dom & Hyo


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  1. i feel you....i once experience having boyfriend that is not same race and religion with me...really hard but at the end, we cant keep on going....well it still give me good memory ^.^..nice to know you..i love reading your blog

  2. Yes true! It was so hard to let it go but we know that we cannot do anything to solve our problem, due to that we said goodbye.. I hope someday both of us will find our true happiness ^^ Good memories will stay forever ^^nice knowing you too and thanks for reading my pieces ^^ Hope you will enjoy my future entries ^^